27 February 2019
Another boring holiday slipped on by. Why was it boring? Our house was invaded further with stomach flu and a nasty cough plague. Evelyn was running a fever and stayed home until Wednesday, Phillip was sick with continued stomach flu, I caught the bug, towards the end of the week both Justin, Josie, and Amelia came down with nasty coughs. I try to get out of the house at least once a day. We did not leave for a month of Sundays! An obvious exaggeration, but seriously, we were home bound. Phillip seemed to feel ok during the day, but at night he was up for three nights with diarrhea and stomach flu. Evelyn kept us all up for nights on end with her endless hacking and moaning. She even had a double earache on Friday. I hope we are finally on the mend. Of all the weeks to feel sick last week was perfection. It was cloudy, rainy, and cold! It felt nice to cuddle under blankets, watch endless TV, and sip on chicken broth. Since the kids went back to school on Monday all devices and electronics are staying quiet.
Just a couple funny things from our week.
Monday Evelyn went to a birthday party. She was up at 6:30 asking every few minutes how long until the party (3 pm). The party theme was LOL dolls, totally up her alley. She found one of her doll posters and picked one to dress up as, Snow Bunny, because we had similar clothes. She was on cloud 9 picking out a couple gifts at Walmart for her two friends. At the party she was thrilled to walk in an find a runway for the fashion show! Corynn Payne...you earned major party points! When I picked up Evelyn she had a fever...dang it.
Wednesday we were waiting in the van during Amelia's piano lesson. Josie started a game of hide and seek in the van. She counted up to 11, paused then continued with Q-R-S-T... We all got quite the laugh over her mixed numbers and letters. I'm impressed she can count to 11!
Josie was thrilled to have Phillip and Evelyn home with her Tuesday, and Phillip on Wednesday. We went on several walks just to get out of our home for a bit. Phillip played so nicely with Josie for an hour, having tea party after tea party using the play rice. The rice lives on! Ha.
Thursday it rained ALL day and night. I am not exaggerating! The rain set a new record for one day in the area, the airport recorded 1.01 inches, other weather services closer to Gilbert reported nearly 2 inches of rain. The weather service said by 2 am on Friday the cumulative total was 1.45 inches of rain. I completely believe the 2 inches of rain! Several temperature lows were also met. I hear Flagstaff was pounded with 31" of fresh snow. Snow was falling and staying on the ground just a few miles away from us at Lost Dutchman. The rain petered out towards sunset on Friday. We were treated with a full rainbow, double spectrum with a reflective second bow above it. That was amazing! Lots of rain. I hear the wild flowers might just be amazing this year. Justin, Amelia, and I went to an orientation for 7th graders at GCA for the upcoming school year. Amelia was quite excited about all the fun clubs, opportunities, and choices she'll have. I think this school is a good choice for her, though I hear the homework load is tremendous. I hate homework. Keep it at school.
Everett's temper got the better of him. He was rude to several students and teachers. Come to find out another student was pestering him and he finally blew up. When a teacher saw his red, angry face she tried to intervene, Everett was so angry he spluttered mean words and stalked off. It took some coaxing to get the entire story out of him. We talked about how to deal with pestering friends, how to tell an adult you need space, and what to do next time. He had to write several apology letters to the teachers and student involved. After writing the letters he seemed to get into the mood of being gracious. It's hard being the middle child!
Friday evening Amelia came home from school feeling quite sick from a head cold. She actually went upstairs to bed right away. Justin and I went out on a fun little date with the Russo's. Amelia was able to babysit since the kids just watched TV or played games for the time we were gone. We had some dinner at In N'Out burger and saw "The Upside." It reminded me of a crime solving book series involving a quadriplegic and crew. The movie was funny and inspiring. Hooray for date nights. Justin was also not feeling too well by this point. He went out shooting with the Elder's Quorum early Saturday morning. He came home and slept for a couple days.
The kids and I went to the movies Saturday afternoon. Phillip was overly anxious to watch the newest How to Train Your Dragon movie, all his friends already saw it, even Anson. The other kids were not anxious to watch it so Amelia, Everett, and Evelyn went to see the Lego Movie 2, while Josie, Phillip, and I watched the Dragon Movie. Phillip was bouncing around the entire movie! He chatted Justin's ear off for 20 minutes talking details about all the new dragons and the plot, scattered here and there.
I got out my beading supplies to make baby Rachel a bracelet for her blessing day. Evelyn and Amelia were right there to help and make their own designs. Evelyn made quite a few bracelets for us all with pipe cleaners and pony beads. She was in heaven! In her bead kit she found a bee shaped bracelet, immediately she made a creation for her kindergarten teacher. Mrs Norton has a beehive for her class instead of students.
Posted by Jenni Call at 2:30 PM
17 February 2019
Justin commuted to California for work on Monday! He left early in the morning and was home by 7:45. Evelyn thought it hilarious he took an airplane to work. He had a job interview, after meeting with the company they decided not to hire him. Apparently, he was energized enough after a long commute and a full day of interviewing. That was disheartening. We had a really, really good Come Follow Me lesson for FHE. For the first time the kids were engaged until Justin walked in! Hooray.
Tuesday afternoon Kieran, Josie, and I drove out to the Botanical Gardens in Phoenix for her Senior Photos. I die! The location was completely gorgeous, Kieran so full of beauty and personality. Josie did well tagging along with her lunchbox full of snacks in the stroller. Sister Godard watched the kids until Justin got home. Amelia came home with a tummy and head ache. She swiftly succumbed to the stomach flu. Everett also had the stomach flu towards bedtime. Both kids stayed home from school the next day, feeling poorly again. Come Saturday Phillip and Josie came down with the stomach flu. Poor Josie was up until 11 pm barfing in a bowl. I think it's hilarious when Dog Vader barks she tells me Vader is barfing. Well, for the first time today she said Vader was barking. I think she understands the difference now. Phillip is by far the messiest barfer, he made it to the bathroom...but not the toilet. I'm happy it was not the carpet.
Aunt Charity sent us a fun box of every type of kid snack for Valentine's Day! The kids were thrilled to pick and choose their favorites. We loved saying thank you via facetime. Monday I looked outside in between piano lessons to check on Everett. When I looked I could see the sun illuminating his spit spray as he made outrageous weapon sounds. It made a really cool photo...or 20 photos. I can just hear the sound effects as I look at those photos.
Wednesday we had New Beginnings for Amelia. We had to bring all the kids so that felt a bit crazy. Amelia was glowing with all the newness of the program. Pretty exciting.
Valentine's day was amazing. The kids went off with their cute boxes, bags of cards and treats, decked out in red and pink colors. The girls had heart braids in their hair. I surprised the kids with cute stuffies and candy. The boys FINALLY got their own squishimal. I though Everett's was a boy but turned out it's name was Kylie...he renamed his stuffy to Kyle. Done! It's a boy now, named Kyle. Josie, Gabi, and I took Justin out to lunch at Cafe Rio to celebrate another day of love. I took several rounds of cute baby photos studio style of two darling blessing gowns and a baby's 6 month photos. Sister LaBarr brought us a huge box of sugar cookies, frosting bags, and sprinkles as a thank you! Hooray! The kids all came home hyped up on sugar and excited over their fun day. Isla and Evelyn played Valentines for the rest of the afternoon. Amelia was disappointed her class chose to NOT hand out Valentines. Instead they opted for a pizza party. Justin came home arms laden with beautiful flowers for all the girls! He surprised me with a potted plant of Azalea's! Yassss! We enjoyed shrimp scampi and asparagus by candlelight for dinner. Yum. The scampi looked strange because the garlic turned green and purple. Justin represented at work, he wore the cute wooden heart Evelyn made in class. After school she explained that Justin and I have to take turns wearing the heart for the rest of our lives! Ha ha ha! She is in love with her rainbow llama!
Amelia went to the temple after school with her friend Ruby Smith and her YW's class. She was baptized for three more family members! That girl is on fire. At home we packed up the kids and headed to Build a Bear to spend Josie's last few birthday dollars. She's pined over the Skye doll, jacket, helmet, and wings set they sell. She was so cute picking out her animal, filling it, rubbing her heart (and etc), and then washing her new pet. The best was afterwards. We let the kids play on the play area for a while. Justin got us ice cream cones to enjoy. Josie went at it! She licked her cone super fast with her eyes closed. Made us all laugh!
Saturday we stayed home once Phillip started to barf. Justin did replace the ballast in the laundry room florescent light, it has been inoperable for over a month now. I love having light again. I did a bit of thrifting. The pickings are good lately!
Today we stayed home again after Josie started her night barf session. I decided it best to keep all our germs at home, only Justin went to church. We watched Ephriam's Rescue for our church content. Made us all cry and feel grateful for our shoes and circumstances. Mary Goble Pay has a quote at the end of the movie! We are related to her! I met with the bishop at 3 pm for various reasons. Comes down to the wire that I need some help to overcome some of emotional baggage. Gotta see a professional to help cut out the strangeness. Life is just hard sometimes.
Posted by Jenni Call at 5:33 PM
Josie has grown so much this year, not just physically, seems the changes are more social and emotional. Her speech went from just a handful of words to amazing sentences and thoughtful communication. She tells jokes, can make stories, pretend plays, and can identify so many people and things. Her joy is so contagious! We love her enthusiasm over everything. She gets so excited to try out new experiences, jumps up and down, clapping her hands. Josie can count to 10 and identify her colors and some ABCs. Josie loves to dance and is starting to sing songs. A month or so ago she learned to pedal her trike, I almost gave up hope! I pulled her around the block for a year with a bungee cord trying to teach her. Yeehaw!
She is my picky eater. This girl will not touch fruits or veggies with a 10 foot pole. She mostly eats apple sauce packets, noodle soup, turkey meat, cottage cheese, and Lucky Charms. Her favorite food is candy, she will do almost anything for a piece of chocolate or pink milk.
Josie loves nursery now. She skips into class ready to do puzzles. Leaving her with other people is not as difficult, although she is still quite clingy. She is recognizing that other kids her age can be best friends. Her best friends are Adelaide and Ezra.
Sleep is still a beast. My kids and sleep seems like a nightmare, Evelyn is terrible, sleeps with us most night. In the past month Josie decided she is scared of the dark, so wakes up often at night. Wakes up screaming all of our names until I wake up. "Mom! I need You! Daddy where are you? I'm all alone! I 'cared!" A nightlight is not helping. I've spent more nights sleeping on her floor with a camping mat than I care to admit. All the bedrooms are so close together that the awake kids always wake up the others. I still dream of having a communal bedroom filled with 10 mattresses and a huge pile of a blankets and pillows. Who needs privacy? I took down her crib last night, the beast is free to roam. Problem is I'm too tired to wait outside her room for a week in a camp chair like I did with Amelia and Phillip. Everett loves his bed so he never had an issue. I stopped giving her melatonin so now she is awake until after 10 or 10:30 each night. This week I cut her afternoon nap down to 45 minutes, it's helping a little. Our bed is not big enough for two wiggly toddlers.
Josie has a passion for Paw Patrol. She can name all the characters and their strengths. It's pretty cute. She loves to play with Evelyn. Yesterday Evelyn was playing school, she had Josie hopping to all her commands. I was in tears laughing. Josie loves being read too, we read books before nap and bed. She loves Baby Gabi, I love that she gets to learn how to share with a young baby. She loves her Amelia, runs and gives huge hugs before and after school. Josie is the sweetest. Josie always has a hug and kisses on the cheek for anyone in our family who asks. Justin loves her sweet kisses and silly phone calls.
We visited the pediatrician on Friday for her well-child. Josie weighed 30.4 pounds (24.7%) and measured 36 inches (47.1%) tall. She is in good health and met all her developmental milestones!
Posted by Jenni Call at 5:04 PM
I'm writing this a week late so my memory is a bit hazy, I'll have to rely on the photos to tell the story. Monday Amelia was a fine spirits, Chloe was over to play and have her piano lesson. Abby was also able to come over for 2 hours. Those girls were in high spirits and so energetic. We should've had FHE while the visitors were over! As soon as the girls left, salty Amelia emerged. I planned an FHE lesson on fasting and fast offerings since we are studying about Christ fasting for 40 days. I had circles with fruit or a question on it, spin a bottle to pick your circle. For the fruits we assigned a silly action to do. Grouchy grouch-grouch almost turned me to tears after only a couple minutes. So frustrating! I sent her up to her room until she could be civil. At least we had brownies to snack on. The rest of our Come Follow Me lessons went a bit better, I'm loving all the awesome podcasts from LDSliving and Meridian Magazine. There is a fun seminary level YouTube video lesson from Don't Miss This. So much information. I think we are enjoying doing our weekly scripture journals and discussing the week's lesson on Sunday.
Tuesday I took the little girls out to play at Giggles around 9:40, a great way to kick off Josie's birthday celebration. Josie was bizzering here and there for 2.5 hours. We ended the session with a lovely jump on the tramp. Gabi was quite tired so played for an hour then slept in the front carrier. We invited anyone who could come and celebrate her birthday. Josie was overjoyed that Ezra came to play with her. We had a special lunch at McDonald's with a fun toddler play area. During all the nap times and late nights I hurriedly worked on editing the massive load of wedding photos, there were so many amazing photos. Chloe came home from school with Mia again for an orchestra event at the High School. The girls quickly got a snack, dressed in dressed, and had me fix their hair. They got to play with all the local 6th grader orchestras in the district. The Jr High, High School, and elite groups all performed as well. We arrived just in time to catch Amelia and friends still eating dinner in the foyer. Amelia is so sweet to her sisters, especially Josie. Evelyn brought a tote of art supplies to amuse herself. Everett kept busy sweet talking Abby Standage with Pokemon characters and rules. He is quite the suave talker. Evelyn managed to smuggle a pair of scissors inside her tote. Phillip used the scissors to create two snowflakes during the recital. He left quite the pile of paper under his seat. The High School orchestra performed a lovely suite from Greatest Showman! Brother Standage told Justin a few days later about something his son Wyatt said: Dad, Amelia is a little cute. (dad: what do you mean a little cute?) Ooooookk, she is really cute!
Josie's 3rd birthday was on Wednesday. She loved telling everyone, "It's my birthday! I frwee." The kids riled her up before I could intervene, the promised her birthday doughnuts! Well, we had doughnuts! We drove up to have lunch with Justin at Jimmy John's near his work. Evelyn was so cute and excited. We had to sit outside where it was quite chilly and breezy. I can't use the word windy since the wind here pales in comparison to the Nebraska winds. I hid the bag with her two little gifts, could not find the dang bag. I messed up Amelia's piano lesson time (the teacher changed it to Thursday) so we went to Walmart and bought duplicate gifts instead. I found the dang bag later that evening (thank heavens for returns). Josie helped me make pink cupcakes and frosting. We decorated the treats with Paw Patrol sprinkles and decorations. Once the kids came home from school we hid her big present and let her "open" it. The cute squeals of delight made that purchase totally worth it (the clearance price tag helped, ha ha). After dinner she opened her gifts. She did such a great job sharing her new toys with everyone. She got a baby surprise, Sky bubbles, hungry hippos game, fishing game, a large squishy squirrel, and a gumball machine. I'm still finding little dots of gum in the carpet. Josie is quite the spunky, happy, joyous child. A perfect caboose.
I picked up Zoe from school and took her and Amelia to Gilbert Classical Academy for the morning. The school had an open house for all students interested in going to come see the school in session. Amelia filled out the application and was immediately accepted. She had to sign an acceptance letter in return by Friday the 8th. She spent a bit of time praying and weighing her options between GCA and Greenfield (where most of her friends are going). Chloe and Brookyln are pressuring her heavily to just go to Greenfield. Amelia paid close attention to her feelings during her morning at GCA. She came out around noon with a huge smile plastered on her face, excited for her new opportunity. She signed the acceptance letter! She loved that she can take more electives and learn more that way, all the kids are starting out new at the school in 7th grade so everyone will be looking for friends. She has Zoe already so that helped out a bit. I'm proud of her for making such a weighty decision mostly on her own, using her parents as sounding boards.
I finally finished editing the wedding photos, hooray. Saturday Phillip was able to have his friend Ryan over for the day. We got our house cleaning done in record time, including rooms cleaned. I just wish the clean lasted more than a few hours. Before we were done Evelyn had all her makeup and hair supplies out to give makeovers. We took the kids to Riparian for a picnic lunch as a break from our house. I tortured Josie into taking her 3rd birthday photos, Amelia helped me make her smile. Josie knew how to pose after all her little life of camera posing. Phillip found a huge stick to chase kids around the play area. Justin (and I) were in quite the funk over the weekend. He was grouchy and I was feeling isolated. He tried to call me while I was taking Josie's photos because Evelyn had to use the restroom but refused to allow Justin to help. I normally keep my phone on silent with just vibrating on because it always seems to ring a the exact wrong moment (like when a baby is going to sleep). I finished just in time to earn a steaming mad husband and a toddler crying because she had to pee. Justin stalked off to vent while the rest of us played. Evelyn gave me a fantastic makeover while Justin napped. I got ready for our ward's "Let's Taco About Love" dance at 6 pm. I quite enjoyed getting all gussied up with straight hair, cute outfit, and makeup. I didn't realize how much I missed the excitement over getting dressed up. Amelia held down the fort for a couple hours while we went to a dance! We dined on tacos for dinner. Two Hispanic ladies showed us how to dance the Salsa! Justin refused to dance, well, he did dance one slow dance with me. I danced alone or with other ladies whose husbands refused to dance. I was surprised to get several compliments on my dance skills. Ha ha ha! I guess all those dance exercise videos I'm doing are paying off.
Sunday after a short dinner we headed to the church for a special broadcast for the Arizona saints, President Nelson spoke to us all! Justin was still napping when we left, he got to the church before the broadcast started. Rumor was a special broadcast about President Nelson's life was showing before the broadcast, that did not happen. We took over the Primary room where the kids could color and skip about. Josie and Evelyn played a fun game of hide-and-seek with their markers during the broadcast! They were quite entertaining to watch. The spirit was electrifying towards the end of President Nelson's talk, he spoke about the second coming and invited us to join the Arizona battalion. Asking us to pray each morning for inspiration to gather those into to fold, on BOTH sides of the veil. Here are a few clips from the Church News:
- “As you work together to remodel your home into a sanctuary of faith — filled with learning together from the home-centered, Church supported curriculum — that is gathering Israel.
- “As you parents create experiences where your children can learn to feel the Spirit of the Lord — that is gathering Israel.
- “As you do family history, serve and worship in the temple, use your discretionary time to draw closer to Heavenly Father and to His Son and to help someone else do the same — that is gathering Israel.
- “As you help to strengthen the testimonies of others; as you repent and help others to repent; as you reach out in your communities and participate in worthy efforts to alleviate suffering — that is gathering Israel.
From another local newspaper:
"Nelson said God’s 'miracle' of giving Abraham and Sarah a son, Isaac, even though they were considered too old to have children, could comfort Robert’s family as they prayed for a miracle with Robert’s recovery. He cited numerous other of God’s miracles to Abraham, and stated that so long as followers are true to their covenants, they would 'have access to the power of God to do the seemingly impossible in our lives.'"
Posted by Jenni Call at 12:02 PM
03 February 2019
We kicked off this week with much healthier kids. All the kids went to school on Monday with no fevers, coughs, or sniffles. Amelia still had a headache but all in all we kicked the flu out the door. Or so I thought! Amelia threw up in the hallway at school on Tuesday. She was quite embarrassed she did not grab the trashcan when her tummy went wild. She got another day at home on Tuesday but after her episode seemed just fine the rest of the day. Josie and Evelyn had a measure of post-sick attitude, lots of whining this week from our household.
Sunday's gospel lesson was terrible. The kids were all jerks. Amelia was over the top grouchy, snapping at everyone. Phillip and Everett playing stupid games and jokes on each other. Evelyn crying because I would not pay attention to her. I was quite excited about the lesson after listening to the podcast from Meridian Magazine. Instead everyone went to bed at 7 pm, sent to bed for being stinkers. I locked myself in the closet to calm down. Hoping this week goes better.
Monday evening the school had a fundraiser at Peter Piper's Pizza. We ate gross pizza, decent wings, and sipped some root beer for dinner. The kids completely enjoyed playing arcade games before and after dinner. I earned the most tickets! Yasss! That skeeball game sure kicked out the tickets. Justin joined us halfway through the night. He seemed to enjoy following Josie about as she flitted from game to game. We brought along Chloe and her brother Ronald since they were at our house for piano lessons after school.
I worked on cutting out some patterns for dresses this week. After I cleaned the garage I made space for my sewing center to come out and play until the weather turns hotter. I am so excited about these spring dresses. I was finally able to pick up my camera and lens on Tuesday. Tempe Camera had both items to properly calibrate the lens to my camera. The lens is working better but is still giving me grief. I sort of hate it, wish I never dropped my old lens. Thursday I had a newborn session for a little one born in my ward. She is a darling, wide-awake baby. She wriggled out of 6 swaddles, an unheard of feat! So many cute babies that day, Gabi and Aspen also came for 6 mth old photos. The kids were home when Gabi came by. Phillip was about to drive me crazy, he was trying to help capture Gabi's attention but ended up distracting us all. He would not stay away! My blood pressure was way too high by the time I got what I needed.
Tuesday our FHE was focused on baptism and repentance. I covered 10 cans with new paper labels, like "You teased your sister and made her cry." Everett wore a backpack and the kids read the label then deposited the can into the pack. We talked about how if there was no repentance then Everett would have to carry around those cans plus all the new sins he committed for the rest of his life. Using the atonement we repented of the sins and emptied the backpack. I thought that was a fun, visual activity for this week's lesson.
Friday I photographed Statton and Mady's wedding. I was at the Gilbert Temple from 9:30-12:30 for the ceremony and family photos. Josie played at the Payne's house that morning. She was not happy when I picked her up, sad I was gone for so long. Shortly after the kids arrived home from school I was off again to photograph the reception. Josie was not happy I left so soon, she was a bawling, hot mess when I took off. I hear the kids eventually headed over to the Godard's for a bit to calm her down. The reception site was breathtakingly gorgeous. There was a Victorian-styled home, an opened reception hall, and an outdoors area carefully manicured with plants and flowers. I loved capturing all the details and unposed nature of the reception. The stress of the posed wedding arrangements is huge. I stress about equipment failure and the fact that my personality is not loud and bossy. Made it through another wedding.
Amelia needed to get her stuff ready to leave early the next morning for an all day temple trip. Due to miscommunication and lack of communication she was not ready before bed so the next morning was chaos. Her recommend was lost, she did not have a dress, change of underwear, and such. We sure missed her all Saturday. The youth went to Gila and Tucson temples in one day! She had 10 family names to do, 5 at each temple. Sunday she bore her testimony about her sweet experience. She was nervous but once in the temple she felt peaceful. The youth rode in a fancy bus to both locations. She sat next to Stella Packard. They slept alot! Ha ha.
At home we headed out early so Phillip could help pick up food for the Scout food drive. We rode our bikes over to the location and helped out. We only picked up three bags of food for our entire stretch of route. Back at home I left to get some grocery shopping done. Afterward we put food away and had lunch. After lunch we stripped the fruit from the lime tree, it was already starting to flower for this coming fruit season. The boys made a game out of stabbing the fruit with sticks and throwing limes at each other! Our yard was dotted with brightly colored fruit for a while. Phillip also buried some sticks in the soft grass ends up, I was reminded of booby traps soldiers laid in Vietnam. Our yard looks much better after some attention. Justin gave the kids motorcycle rides around the oval! Even Josie got a ride around our street. I got a fun ride as well, for the first time I might mention. He left for a longer solo ride. The kids and I went to Target to find Valentine's Day stuff for school. Phillip, Everett, and Evelyn all spent a portion of their allowance on games and toys. Evelyn saved her money for three months to buy an LOL #hairgoals. She was quite disappointed that her newest doll did NOT have hair, excited that her doll was a rare one. Phillip loaded up the cart with $100 in Legos. Problem was he only had $50 to spend. It was excruciating for him to put it all back except one Lego set and three blind bags toys. He loves to spend money and hates to work for it.
Posted by Jenni Call at 4:02 PM